John Mayer Taylor Swift age difference

Taylor Swift and John Mayer infamously dated in 2009 for a year when Swift was only 19 Mayer was 32. After their breakup, in her 2010 album, Speak Now, Taylor released a song detailing their relationship.

On October 21, 2022, Taylor Swift released her 10th studio album Midnights and three hours later, she dropped an additional album that had three songs. The new album, Midnights (3am edition), had a song titled, Would've, Could've, Should've.

The song has caught the attention of her fans, the Swifties, who have brought John Mayer into the limelight again.

The new album has thirteen 'stories,' as Taylor calls them, that have stories of her past dating life. The singer-songwriter's motivation for her music has always stemmed from her break-ups and the new album talks about all of them.

However, it is Would've, Could've, Should've that has found a special place on the internet with its tell-all lyrics. In the song, Swift highlights her deep regret about dating older men, and now, fans can't seem to figure out if she's talking about John Mayer or Jake Gyllenhaal. Swift had allegedly dated Gyllenhaal, who is nearly 19 years older than her, in 2010 for a few months.


What did John Mayer do?

When the Wild Blue singer and Swift ended their relationship in 2010, the latter released a very pointed song about their relationship in her album Speak Now. The song was titled Dear John and the lyrics paint a picture that insinuates that she was a victim of grooming. The lyrics go:

"Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?"

However, that wasn't all as the lyrics also say:

"Don't you think nineteen's too young to be played by your dark, twisted games."

When asked about the song, Mayer revealed that he was humiliated by it, and claimed to not know about her feelings towards him until after he heard it. The singer had already received quite a lot of hate for the age-difference between the two.

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John Mayer and Taylor Swift perform at the Jingle Ball in NYC 2009 (image via Shutter Shock)

In an interview with Rolling Stone, he claimed not to like the fact that he was the subject of the song. The Love on the Weekend singer claimed that Swift's lyrics were a cheap shot and added:

"I know she’s the biggest thing in the world, and I’m not trying to sink anybody’s ship, but I think it’s abusing your talent to rub your hands together and go, ‘Wait till he gets a load of this!’ That’s bullsh*t.”

Fans allege that Mayer may have written his song Paper Doll in retaliation to Swift's song. The lyrics to his song go "was it just too far to fall, for a little paper doll."

Now, following the release of Swift's new album Midnights, John Mayer is back in the limelight. The lyrics to the new song allege inappropriate behavior on Mayer's part.

In Would've, Could've, Should've, as she expresses her regrets and demands her 'girlhood' back, Taylor sings:

"And I'm d*mn sure I never would've danced with the devil at nineteen."
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Lyrics to Swift's new song on Ex, John Mayer (image via genius.com)

Internet flooded with memes at John Mayer's expense

When John Mayer joined TikTok in March 2021, he was met with immediate backlash from the Swifties. Although he attempted to humor them away, a negative slew of comments filled his content. One user even warned him and said that he wasn't "safe here."

While Mayer hasn't said anything to or about Swift, following the release of her new song, Taylor's fans have come forward to voice their opinions. They've brought his "crimes" back into focus, berating him and hoping for his downfall via memes and funny quips.

Taylor really put Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve, a song directly about her relationship with John Mayer when she was just 19, as TRACK 19 ON THE ALBUM. SHOTS WERE FIRED

i cant stop laughing taylor really said actually i don't want to wait for speak now taylors version to be released to drag john mayer i need him to suffer NOW

“Give me back my girlhood” JOHN MAYER YOU ARE GOING TO HELL

something tells me john mayer just jumped out of his sleep with a gasp. i know he felt a shift

upon listening to could’ve would’ve should’ve I would like to issue a formal apology for every time i’ve called john mayer hot. we ride at dawn.

john mayer at 3:20 this morning feeling the hatred of hundreds of thousands of women hexing him https://t.co/tce8VZgvbJ

Swift's latest album was released at the midnight on October 21, 2022. It chronicles her journey through "terrors and sweet dreams" and of "13 sleepless nights" of her life.

Midnights has 20 songs in total including the 3am tracks and is available to stream on all music platforms.

Edited by Madhur Dave

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What has John Mayer said about Taylor Swift?

Mayer says he was 'humiliated' by Swift. I'm pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do.” He called Swift's songwriting "cheap" and added:"It made me feel terrible. It was a really lousy thing to do."

Who dated Taylor Swift when she was 20?

The song "All Too Well," off "Red," is believed to be about Jake Gyllenhaal, whom Swift dated when she was 20 and he was 29. Now, Swift frequently sings about her boyfriend, Joe Alwyn, whom she's been dating since 2016 (See: "Lover," "London Boy").

What age was Taylor Swift when she dated a 17 year old?

So it turns out that, yes, Taylor did date a 17-year-old, although she was only 20 at the time and the relationship didn't last very long. The broader point is really that Taylor has been in relationships with age gaps where she is older, although none as severe as the eight-year gap between Taylor and Jake.

How old was Taylor Swift when she came out with 22?

In 2012, a 22-year-old Taylor Swift was “happy, free, confused, and lonely at the same time,” as she sang in her appropriately named, iconic hit “22.” And nearly 10 years later, a now-31-year-old Swift is revisiting those feelings, with the long-awaited rerelease of her beloved album, Red.