How to find my boyfriend on Reddit

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How to find my boyfriend on Reddit

My bf and I are sitting next to each other right now, I have typed in his username exactly as it appears on his profile into the search bar, both with and without u/ and it just comes up with the wow such empty cat. He has also tried to search my username exactly as it appears and I don't come up in his searches either. I have a Samsung and he has an iPhone, if that means anything at all. Also neither of us have posted yet but we have both commented and upvoted on things. Thanks in advance!

Hello all, long time lurker here...I felt compelled to ask this question because I honestly am not sure at all how to go about approaching this situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

So here it goes:

I found my boyfriend's reddit account (gasp shock awe if he found out) while looking up some advice on a different topic. By complete chance I came across his profile because this person's post seemed like something he would ask around that timeframe. I know he loves reddit so I just peeked on the profile and BAM there he was.

We've been dating for roughly a year now and this is where I seek your advice: I noticed that he posted stuff (roughly a year ago) regarding our initial flirtations and his views on relationships. He did imply in one post that I was dumb, he also stated in another that he would like a long term relationship eventually but, being an alpha, asked if he should continue with the spinning plates theory (continue to have a lot of options), essentially asking if cheating is condoned....

He hasn't posted much since those posts just shy of a year ago, but the things he did say were relatively hurtful and I am questioning how he views me now....he says he would never cheat, but these posts completely throw me off.

So sorry for the rant; the questions are:

  • Should I bring this up to him even though these were posted during the earlier stages of our relationship?

  • Should I let it go since it was pretty much a year ago now?

  • Would any of you bring this up to your SO? How would you go about it?

I feel like I shouldn't feel shitty about things said about me a year ago and I feel like I should probably just let it go...but I would love anyone's advice on what they would do in this situation! Thanks reddit!

TL;DR: Found bf's reddit account and things he said about me on reddit a year ago made me feel shitty. Should I approach him or leave it alone?

Edit: Wow!! Thanks everyone for the responses! I'll be responding to people once I have a minute alone. Just to confirm what everyone is suspecting: Yes, it was TheRedPill.

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Posted by9 years ago

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She mostly posts about nail polish and stuff I don't really care about. Though I did find out she posted in r/hockey and r/nhl asking about a hat I really wanted but couldn't, unbeknownst to me. So basically I found out she's more of a sweetheart than I thought. No luck on the hat though.

level 2

Why couldn't you the hat?

level 1

He has a nickname for his genitals.. I don't think he knows I know about it.

level 2

Call it that in bed, see what he does. Then report.

level 2

Just start talking to it, instead of him, next time he whips it out. Call it by its name.

level 2

PLEASE whisper it in his ear when you have sex next!

level 1

Yeah. He's not as funny online as he is in person :(

level 2

Look on the bright side, he's funnier in person than online.

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This is preferable to the other way around. You're gonna spend more time with him in person than online.

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My girlfriend is much hotter online than she is in person :(

level 2

That's actually a good thing.

level 1

I found mine because he was logged in when I used his computer. He had like 7 karma and two posts from a few years ago about computers. I was kind of hoping to find something interesting.

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Hey baby I have like 1652 link Karma.. What are you doing tonight? ;)

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