Are you one of those whose spouse is addicted to his/her black berry or laptop even while they are at home? Are work pressure and deadlines the only things that occupy your partner's mind? Is your partner engaged in work even on a weekend? Is his professional life an impediment to your intimacy levels? Don't encourage 'workaholic' tendencies It is easy for a workaholic's spouse to lose patience and highlight the consequences of his workaholic tendencies. While it's important to ask your partner for more time and attention, it's equally important to put your requests in a positive manner. "Nagging or blaming your spouse for not
finding time for you may make it even more difficult to move towards a comprehensible solution. The complaints should not focus on the spouse's failure to strike a balance between work and family, but on the desired attention and family time," says Arvind Mehta, a psychotherapist and relationship counselor. Also Read: Do men prefer working wives? Men put work before family Do successful women scare men? Is your hubby working overtime? Career driven women ignoring family Work stress straining family relations Working singles are the unhappiest Stay connected! "My wife is obsessed with her work and doesn't talk about anything else even when are out for dinner. She is always on her phone
discussing work or office politics with her colleagues, even on weekends. It really annoys me and our son feels neglected too," says Siddharth Joshi (name changed on request) , 34, who works with a multi-national company in Noida. Agreeing with Siddharth, Pragya, 28, who works with a multi-national company in Hyderabad says, "Whenever my husband talks about work at dinner or while on a vacation, I change the topic to divert his mind. I make sure I call him up once during the day when he's at
work. Staying in touch even when you are away from each other is the best way to deal with a workaholic partner." Also Read: Do men prefer working wives? Men put work before family Do successful women scare men? Is your hubby working overtime? Career driven women ignoring family Work stress straining family relations Working singles are the unhappiest Take small steps 'I
have to provide for the family, educate my kids, advance in my career and you keep blaming me for working hard? Do you want me to quit my job and stay at home?' Sounds familiar? Your spouse's attachment to his work may be a quest for personal significance and not your insignificance.
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